Men have become an endangered species. The world is now so female-dominated that any mention of men's needs, desires and motivations must be 'softened up' in a way that women will approve of.

So it's not OK for a man to say that he dates to get sex. Think about it, would you even consider admitting to that? Think about it some more... there's a lot of truth there, yes?

Yes, we men dare not even think about it ourselves. We kid ourselves that we are looking for a romantic relationship with 'the one', when really what is most important is that we GET SEX!

Preferably NOW!

Of course we have standards. We only want to have sex with a gorgeous woman. And if she's gorgeous enough, we might stick with her for some time.

But the fact is that women often do little or nothing to make sure that a couple of sex sessions turn into a full-blown relationship.

(In contrast, I explain on page 33 of my e-book, 'Online Dating Tips For Men', how there are some women who are looking only for no-strings sex.)

A dose of reality wouldn't hurt. Yes men date so that they can get sex. And so do women. But, beyond that, woman are concerned to hold onto the man and have a lasting relationship.

What they don't realize is that they have a responsibility in this. They have to charm and captivate the man so that he doesn't want to leave the relationship and move on.

It doesn't matter how great the sex is, a man will always want to move on sooner or later if that's all there is. But if the woman has psychologically entwined herself into the man's mind, then he'll stay. Not just for sex, but because he likes her, perhaps even loves her.

If women were more open about recognizing that men are biologically programmed to want to have sex with as many females as possible, they would realize that they have to take positive action to hold onto the man of their dreams.

And a man should never feel guilty for having a short-lived sexual relationship with a woman. If she didn't manage to captivate him during that time, she didn't do her job well enough.