As women, we wear many hats. Were wife, mother, daughter, grandmother, friend, and employee. Were also cook, maid, chauffeur, and bookkeeper. Were so busy being all things to all people, that we dont have time for ourselves. If you dont have time to smell the roses, and would like to create changes in your life, then here are some things to think about to begin designing your ideal life.

1. Do you know what your ideal life looks like? If not, then this is the place to start. Would a different job, more free time, or a change in your relationship bring you more job and happiness? Then start today to work on changing these areas of your life. Until you know what you want, you wont have an idea how to achieve it.

2. Are you self-motivated? Youll have a hard time achieving your goals if you arent. Nobody can motivate you, but you. Others can inspire you, but only you can decide what needs to be done and do it.

3. Are you willing to take a risk? Change can be scary. Will you chance the unknown to go after what you want?

4. What are you willing to give up to achieve your goals? A dramatic change usually doesnt happen without some sacrifices.

5. Are you going to give up if you dont see immediate results? Change doesnt happen overnight and you are sure to face challenges. Do you want your life to change badly enough to persevere when this happens?

6. Do you have people that support you? If you do, then tell them what your goals are and also write them down. When you face a roadblock, look at your written goals or call a friend to remind you of what it is you want to achieve. This will help keep you focused.

7. Realize there will never be a perfect time to begin. The time will pass no matter what. Five years from now will your life still be the same, or will you have created the life you want?

Now close your eyes and picture the life youve created. What are you doing? Are you happy? How does it make you feel to have achieved your goals? Keep this picture in your mind and visualize it everyday until it becomes reality. You have the power to make your dreams come true. As M. Scott Peck said, Until you value yourself, you will not value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. Start today to make your life one of value and reach for the stars!